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.....How do I get the woman to hold the side step?
When you are going to stop in that position, a follower has to stop, too. But you have to prepare your halt, for she must have a chance to react. If she will not stop, it is not your fault any more! There are two possibilities when it will occur: open the embrace immediadly, let her go, and thus blame her.... (would find it nasty) or, stop her with your right hand, and the inside of your right elbow.
Very often it happend to me, that inexperienced followers start to run the molinete instead of stopping.
Do not take your leg, at all, she would interprete that as a lead into a totally different direction. Note to take your left foot, and fetch her right gently. But you have to be quick then........ Do I have to step between her legs and hold my leg there??