...one good way to get them back is to go focus on what we're calling milonguero style. By limiting yourself to close embrace, it forces you to bring the focus back to connection and musicality. Something that should exist in all styles of tango.
The milonguero style is where I find the best dance, for my money, but my own teacher complained about the way I do it. I had to quit taking lessons from her because we disagreed about how I should dance.
I understand the pleasure of knowing and dancing many styles. It's just not what I want to do anymore.