Subliminal
Well-Known Member
For me, the best dances are when I do the least steps. They are when my partner and I simply move together, to the music. I understand that many guys don't understand this, so they do steps instead. The only way to really figure it out, IMO, is to throw away the footwork first, then you can begin to realize that there is a more satisfying layer underlying. Sure, I throw in a fancy step occasionally, just for spice, but I'm aware that I sacrifice the connection for a moment every time I do it.
See, this idea of minimalism irritates the hell out of me. (I don't mean to pick on you specifically AndaBien, it's come up before a bunch of times in this forum, and it set off a rant.
I've seen leaders who practice minimalism time and time again disparage "step monsters". But these are leaders who already have years of experience, went through their own tango journey, and now get the fact that you don't need the fancy steps to dance tango. They perch high on their mountain tops, looking down upon the lesser mortals.
But maybe, just maybe, going through the motions of deconstructing steps is an integral part of the tango journey for some leaders. Maybe you have to come to the minimalist approach on your own. And maybe some people never will, or will figure it out but decide that they prefer complexity anyway. Does that make them wrong?
Believe me, I tried when I first started, at the advice of others on this forum. And it just did not work. At least for me. I had to go through the motions of figuring out the transitions for each movement, and practice them again and again. I even wrote my own practice syllabus. *gasp* I know, scandal.
I learned volcadas and colgadas. Do I lead them? Almost never. But they taught me something about the follower's balance. I learned all manner of whirling sacadas within the turn. Do I lead them? Rarely. But they taught me better timing and made me really refine how I lead turns. I can, now, with confidence lead an entire dance with nothing but walking, or nothing but ochos, rock steps, and non-fancy turns. But I couldn't have done that a year ago, even if in my mind I knew it was possible.