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Oh please.... Didn't we just go over how we're NOT supposed to make personal attacks?Oh good grief. Please nobody talk to this ridiculous vmec anymore. It just gives them license to write something even more ridiculous and offensive. Such a troll.
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SDG. I did not say you were wrong - I'll trust your judgement that the issue was an important one. However, could that not have been transmitted equally well by PM? Seems to me that would have got your point accross well, allowed the person themselves to correct the error (remember sometimes we don't realize we've overstepped a limit) and also have the benefit of leaving the thread on its happy course.
That still doesn't mean that we (I guess that would be girls with big boobs?) should expect to have men stare! However I'll speak for myself only, I DO go to bed wishing my boobs were smaller...
samina said:I find the same accidental magnetic draw at times...and I wouldn't even be a boob-man if I were a guy. *grin*
... my eyes fall on a woman's cleavage without having no intention to look, especially if you wear a necklace, or have a dress with shiny threads around the cleavage. It's rather funny actually because it's almost like a magnet, I don't even realize it and bang im looking there ...
no...he did his job and hopefully kept us from losing a new member...one who may well end up being as valuable as cornutt, whom I adoreSDG - looks like that put rather a damper on a lively fun thread![]()
um...some folks are so well endowed that, in a turtleneck men have to restrain themselves from lookingThis is funny! You almost sound like your breasts outshine YOU!
Why is it so hard to believe that maybe men are dancing with you because you have a great smile, and you have a beautiful body, and are good dancer, and perhaps if they know you, because they like your personality too? It's almost like you're too sensitive to the issue and a glance there already triggers all this my boobs and not me drama.
If you feel so bothered about men admiring your womanly figure, don't wear the outfits you that attract that sort of attention. You mention that you dress just like any other woman in there, but many women feel good when they're being checked out because they feel attractive to the opposite sex. Which is why they dress the way they do...Why else would you wear a cleavage? So other women can look at it? So you can look at it? What is the purpose of a cleavage if not to outline your shape? Why don't nuns wear cleavages?
just as this inquiry would have best been made via the staff mailbox? (so as not to violate another guideline?)SDG. I did not say you were wrong - I'll trust your judgement that the issue was an important one. However, could that not have been transmitted equally well by PM? Seems to me that would have got your point accross well, allowed the person themselves to correct the error (remember sometimes we don't realize we've overstepped a limit) and also have the benefit of leaving the thread on its happy course.